Every experience presents an opportunity.

We cannot choose what happens to us. Sometimes, the way things happen, it looks like there may be a sequence to things or there may be a myriad number of ways we can impact on a situation. But by and large, I believe we don’t choose what happens to us, we are merely on the receiving end.
We do, however, choose how we respond.
There are times when emotion gets the better of us and we react.
There are times we believe we are almost forced into a particular response.
And there are also times when once we’ve had time to digest and consolidate, we realise that we could have done better.
Karla Begley is the mother of a son with autism. She received a shocking letter aimed at her son. Karla could have responded in a number of ways. She could have responded like with like – with hate and vitriol. Yet, she chose the higher ground. She chose to wipe out ignorance. She chose to think about how best to act.
It’s easy to respond quickly and to react. We don’t need to try hard to do that because it is in our nature. That automatic mode, that unreflective mode. And it is hard to choose to do things differently. Sometimes, that is a road you walk alone.
But don’t let anyone tell you that you don’t have choice. Because you do.
Advertisements

About rowena morais

Media Communications and Editorial Specialist. With my strong professional network of contacts, I help individuals and organisations, particularly those within Human Resource and Technology, strengthen their skill-base and brand through compelling writing, beautiful design, content marketing and publishing. Let's talk.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 1,256 other followers

Social

Blog Stats

  • 6,880 hits
%d bloggers like this: