Why? Because if it does not make sense to me, I don’t do anything about it.
If everything in the world could be understood so easily, we would not have the problems we face today. Life is complicated but that’s not an excuse for the way things are.
The problems we face, which loom large, for mostly everyone, is that firstly, we are not facing the same set of experiences and thought processes as others. Secondly, we make sense of all of it so differently. Thirdly, there’s such a huge gap between what we understand/know and what we do.
So, I need to make sense of it in my own mind. I have to process what you are saying based on the experiences I faced, with the people I had to deal with and how they responded. And chances are high, with these variables, that I will not come to the same conclusions you have.
So how do I go from here to make what I need to happen, come alive ? I need firstly, desire. Then, an idea. Followed by a plan. Lastly, action.
Where do you go from here to make things happen? Same thing. Just with your inputs. Because an idea without a plan remains an idea.